How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America’s Top Matchmaker

January 10, 2013

I met Janis Spindel a few years back when she organized a slimy speed dating event in NYC for rich guys and young beautiful women. (As screened by Janis herself.)  I was there covering the event with a lot of other love and relationships reporters and media types, most of whom were smart, professional women in their late twenties and early thirties.

The atmosphere of the event was palpably icky; as slimy as legalized prostitution — young, beautiful girls and creepy rich guys, and I felt I very strong desire to pull these twenty year old women outside for a second and say, “You can do better.  Much better.  You’re beautiful, yes, but you’re also talented, smart, and funny.  There’s no reason you should let someone treat you like a commodity.

Beware of this one dear readers.  You too, can do better.


The book description says this:

The hardest part about dating is understanding the mysterious inner workings of a man’s brain. How can women know what men are really looking for if men don’t tell them?

They can ask Janis.

With over fourteen years of experience as a professional matchmaker, Janis Spindel has a unique insider’s perspective on contemporary dating culture. All her clients are men, and they tell her exactly what they want in a relationship. Janis offers women a step-by-step plan for winning a man’s heart, such as:
It’s okay to ask a guy for his number, as long as you do it with confidence
Don’t wear your work clothes on a date, ever! Freshen up before meeting a guy
Pay him a compliment? He’s human. He’ll love it.

Entertaining and empowering, What Men Really Want is the next best thing to a private appointment with the nation’s premier matchmaker.

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