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One of the most common causes of a failed marriage is infidelity.

Your friends might have told you stories about them catching their partners with somebody else.

You cringe at the idea of that happening to you. But how can you be sure it won’t?

Spending the rest of your life with somebody you truly love is a major goal for most people. But the rising number of divorce cases each year only proves that the bond a marriage provides may not really be as strong as it should be.

Actually, records show that many marriages were dissolved because of the disloyalty of a party.

People go into relationships for a number of different reasons. And in the process, they are expecting something from their partner. Some expect their partner to alter their way of living after getting married for their sake, while others demand more than what their partner can give. Whatever the case may be, only one truth remains:

Marriage is a commitment. As a person enters into it, he or she has a new set responsibility to undertake.

Part of that responsibility is to remain true and loyal to their partner. In a relationship, cheating is a major no-no. Most of the time, both parties assure one other that they would never cheat on each other. But does it really happen? Not necessarily.

If you found out your partner is having an affair, how would you handle such betrayal?
Do you want to learn the ways on how to maintain your marriage cheat-free as it is? Then let us show you how!

What we have prepared is a comprehensive guide on cheating in the context of a relationship. The report "Cheat-Proof Your Marriage Without Hiring a Detective" contains all the information you need to know about the attitude, behavior, and action of cheating husbands and wives and the different ways it can be detected.

Research shows that cheating is prevalent in relationships, married or not.

It also contains relevant data about the concept of cheating, why it happens, and how rampant it is nowadays. Aside from these, this report will also teach you:

What cheating really is and how you can consider an act as such.
The ways men and women cheat.
The most common signs that your partner is cheating on you.
How to detect if others know that your partner is cheating, but are hid.
Amazing ways to maintain a cheat-free marriage.
Great tips on how partners can avoid flings in their workplace.
.Romantic things you can do or say to keep the love blooming.
The importance of giving your partner some space to breathe.
The importance of being honest to your partner.
How to keep your partner attached to you.
The importance of sex in a marriage.
Ways on how to enjoy and maintain great sex.
The activities you can share to nurture the marriage.
The major factors that trigger partners to cheat.
How to effectively deal with a cheating partner.
How to avoid cheating from happening to you.

Also much much more & what to do if you still get cheated despite all efforts to prevent it from happening.

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The Emotional Affair is the only book on the market for couples seeking to cope with and recover from one partner's emotional affair. Although emotional affairs often do not include physical intimacy, they can take away from the relationship by encouraging one partner to get his or her emotional needs met elsewhere, and by bringing secrecy and deception into the relationship, which damages trust just as surely as if the partner had slept with the other person.

Emotional affairs share three characteristics: Emotional intimacy. Transgressors share more of their inner self, frustrations and triumphs than with their spouses. They are on a slippery slope when they begin sharing the dissatisfaction with their marriage with a co-worker. Secrecy and deception. They neglect to say, We meet every morning for coffee. Once the lying starts, the intimacy shifts farther away from the marriage. Sexual chemistry. Even though the two may not act on the chemistry, there is at least an unacknowledged sexual attraction.

Often, people whose partners have emotional affairs either don't feel like they have a right to put an end to it (after all, the other person is just a friend and not a lover), or they have to contend with the cheating person's evasions and justifications (we work together, we're not having an affair), and accusations that the jealousy or insecurity is not justified. It can be difficult to think of an emotional affair as a problem, even if it's causing the partner worry, jealousy, insecurity, and the loss of emotional connection to the cheating partner.

This book helps the reader explore whether or not the partner is having an emotional affair and then offers steps to discovering the roots of the problem, making changes in the relationship, discussing the issue with the cheating partner, and recovering from the breach of trust and intimacy caused by the affair.

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Infidelity: it happens to millions of people around the world. We all know about Tiger Woods and Elin Nordegren, Prince Charles and Princess Diana, Bill and Hillary Clinton, but it’s not something confined to the rich and famous. The truth is that with every relationship and every marriage comes the possibility of infidelity. No matter what gender you are, whether you are straight, gay or bi, infidelity can find you.

Julia Hartley Moore has experienced it too – in her own life, and also in her career as a private investigator. In this perceptive book, she identifies the telltale signs to look out for if you suspect your partner is a cheat, how to work through it, and how to survive infidelity without becoming scarred and bitter. Bursting with useful information and practical advice, INFIDELITY is a self-help guide as well as a reference book. It includes dozens of real-life examples from the author’s professional work, as well as chapters on how to have a successful affair and on your legal and financial rights (by lawyer Ross Knight).

In this new edition, Julia also tells her own extraordinary story. She was in her teens, and the mother of three children, when she experienced infidelity for the first time. Four marriages later – and fifteen years after setting up her own private investigation company – she is in an ideal position to offer both personal and objective insights into a subject that fascinates everyone but devastates those it touches.

This is a must-read book, especially for women, and is hopefully the only book you’ll ever need to read on the subject of infidelity! By reading INFIDELITY: EXPLODING THE MYTHS, you will learn:
• What is infidelity?
• At what point does a man go from being a cheater to a sex addict?
• The myths of infidelity
• Signs of betrayal
• How to spot a cheat at 1000 paces
• Should you stay or should you go?
• Online dating – how to protect yourself
• Where you stand legally after infidelity

JULIA HARTLEY MOORE is one of Australasia's best-known private investigators. Her company, Arbeth & Co Ltd, has operated around the world since she started it in 1996. Julia first came to widespread attention as the star of a reality television series based on private investigators, and she continues to make regular television and radio appearances. She has also written three previous books based on her work as a PI. The mother of three daughters, Julia has now found true happiness with her new husband, Steve, and they live in a seaside cottage with their two dogs in New Zealand.

'A riveting, explosive read.' – Next magazine

'A clear-sighted exploration of a common occurrence – Hartley Moore has immense sympathy and empathy towards the betrayed party in any situation.' – The Australian

'Refreshing and totally frank – a read with a difference.' – Southland Times

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Everyone loves a good love story. And we all love stories about how the love started and blossomed. This fun new book about dating, romance, love, and marriage, will make you laugh and make you cry, and is guaranteed to inspire you to renew that search for your soul mate or open your heart a little more to the one you already have. Read about how couples met, when "they knew", good and bad dates, proposals, maintaining the relationship, second chances, and all the other ups and downs of love, romance and marriage.

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The first handbook on navigating the exciting, tricky, and potentially disastrous terrain of interracial relationships, with testimony and expert tips on how to make the bumpy ride a bit smoother.

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An illicit affair… so forbidden… it shatters several lives.
A bitter wife… so hell-bent on revenge… she can’t even think straight.
Their drama-packed story… finally exposed!
A chance encounter reunites former college sweethearts Clarke Hudson and Persha Townsend after a ten year separation. In the past, their relationship was a turbulent mix of passion and raw lust. To Persha's dismay, Clarke is now married, but that doesn't stop the two from beginning a torrid affair. Soon, Persha is so caught up in everything Clarke that she becomes obsessed with luring him away from his unsuspecting wife. When an unforeseeable disaster forces Persha out of her condo, Clarke cooks up a deliberate scheme to move Persha into his house… the very house he shares with his wife Kelsa.
Their sinful betrayal erupts into an unimaginable series of events.
What would you do to the person responsible for invading your happy home?
When Kelsa Hudson faces this emotional dilemma she fights back in a unique way.

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Susan Anderson walks you through the principal reasons why your husband or boyfriend probably has an older woman on the side. Think not? Think again. There are sound reasons why an older woman is sometimes preferable to a younger one. When you finish reading this book, you will wonder how you could have been so naive.

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How to cope with a Cheating Spouse addresses the questions the questions that arise when you find out your spouse is cheating. When you are tired or staying in pain and confused with your spouse's cheating, you need help and direction. This volume provides direction for those who are struggling to cope with their spouse's affair.

When to consider divorce, what about Parent Alienation Syndrome, when to forgive your spouse for cheating, how to quit hurting after an affair, what to talk about with a cheating spouse, how to fight with your spouse, how to trust a cheating wife, how to trust a cheating husband and how to build intimacy with your spouse are some of the issues addressed in this volume.

By taking the reader sequentially through a series of helps, you know how to deal with the confusing chaos which often occurs with affairs. An affair does not mean the relationship is over. It does mean that some changes are needed. Rather than wander lost and confused, you can have direction, hope and know what to avoid. You can learn from the lessons of other couples and not make the same mistakes.

Dear Lisa,

My ex partner and I worked together for several years.  When I say worked together, I mean that in the kindest sense I can muster  — I did the overwhelming majority of the work, and he took all the credit. And then lied repeatedly to our mutual colleagues — many of whom reported back to me — claiming he had actually done all the work himself and I had done no work/poor work. We work in a fairly small creative industry.  Should I expose him?  Should I sue?  I have a very good reputation in my industry, and a long career ahead of me.  He, on the other hand, is an older gentleman, and probably doesn’t have much time left before retirement. Should I defend myself and take him down, or let him self-destruct on his own?

Hacked

Dear Hacked,

Let him self-destruct on his own.  There are few things sadder or more pitiful than a man who is creatively impotent. He’s long past his prime, and has realized that not only is his best work behind him, but that his best wasn’t really that good in the first place.  So he’s clawing and scratching and lying and manipulating and trying to claim your work as his own, but all the while he has to live with the heartbreaking knowledge that he’s just not good enough to be great — and he never will be.

He’s a hack.  He’s over.

It’s always interesting to see what people do under duress — some rise to the occasion (what you’re going to do) and some devolve to the worst traits of humanity — stealing, lying, evil. Who knows why?  Perhaps he is mentally ill.  Maybe he’s desperately insecure.  Maybe he had an unstable home life with a mother who didn’t love him, or grew up in a prison or a mental institution. Maybe he’s finally realized that women are only sleeping with him for his money, that he has nothing else to offer.  Maybe he’s humiliated that he can’t manage to get it up anymore.  Maybe he’s just old and untalented and he has a deep hole in his soul — a pathological need for adulation or praise and he’s willing to do anything (including lying or manipulating) to get it. Like a meth addict who steals from his relatives to feed his habit.

Feel sorry for him.  He’s terrified of being irrelevant. And he should be. This does not excuse or condone his behavior at all.  But someone who is as desperate and empty and insecure as this man seems to be will self-destruct in vivid misery — and it will be sooner, rather than later.

When I worked in advertising, there was a saying that great advertising couldn’t save a bad product, it would only expose it as crap a whole lot faster. Your letter says you work in a small industry, you have a good reputation, and you have many productive years ahead of you.  Your professional reputation will be just fine, for those very reasons.  He, on the other hand, will not fare as well. There’s no need for you to shine a spotlight on his inadequacies and gaping deficits — he’ll do that all by himself, quickly exposing himself to the people in your industry as the talentless fraud that he is.

xo,

Insecure men, and men with erection issues (seems counter-intuitive, but it’s true), are also much more likely to cheat. More here: Is He Cheating?

Ask Lisa! My Ex is a Lying Hack by Lisa Daily. (c) Copyright 2001-2013 *Some letters have been edited for clarity.

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Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder is a first of its kind book—written specifically for the partner of a person with bipolar disorder. If you have a loved one with bipolar, you know how disruptive and straining this disorder can be to your relationship. You may experience feelings of fear, loss, and anxiety as well as a constant uncertainly about your loved one’s ever-changing moods.

This book is designed to help you overcome the unique challenges of loving someone with bipolar disorder. With the supportive and helpful information, strategies, and real-life examples contained here, you’ll have all the tools you need to create a loving, healthy, and close relationship.

Find out how to: Identify which coping approaches work and which do not Recognize and transform a “bipolar conversation” Use new strategies to help manage episodic crises Survive the financial turbulence manic spending may cause Deal with problematic sexual issues Increase closeness and stability in your relationship