A cheating spouse or significant-other rarely announces his or her infidelity. You have to figure it out for yourself if you have a cheating husband, cheating wife or unfaithful partner. Sadly, this means indulging your suspicions, even if they might turn out to be unfounded. The potential effects of this are made clear in the introduction to "Cheating Spouse – 75 Signs to Watch For," with this warning:
"This suspiciousness alone can do damage to a relationship as surely as an affair. Be careful using this material. Have a good reason to use it. It is important to know if your significant other is cheating on you. But it is also important not to destroy the trust that a good relationship is built on."
Having been warned, you are then shown how to hunt for the clues, and how to play sneaky tricks to catch a cheater. For example, does she hide her credit cards, or does he hide the phone bills? You'll learn what to look for when you find these clues, and how to lay a trap when necessary.
Have you ever thought to check your spouse's paycheck stubs to see if he is actually working all of the times he claims to be working, particularly the evening and overtime hours? has it occurred to you that if she dresses differently all of a sudden there might be a reason other than a change of seasons? Does he close the screen quickly on the computer when you approach, and do you know how to check up on where he's been online? When she says she's only been to work and back, have you checked the car's odometer to see if the miles driven match that story or tell a different one? What can gas receipts tell you about the possibilities of an illicit encounter?
You are going to become much more aware of what subtle behavioral changes might mean, for better or worse. You are going to learn how to carefully investigate what really going on without alerting your cheating spouse to your suspicions. This short guide does not go into depth on how to become an in-house private investigator. For example, this is the entirety of item number 53, ("She Uses an Implied Defense"):
"Suppose you ask your wife or girlfriend if she went anywhere after work, and rather than answer directly, she says, "You know I like to come straight home." This implies a "no" while subtly announcing that she'll take further inquiry as an attack. Sometimes, when people don't feel comfortable lying outright, they use this kind of "implied defense."
See if you can get a more direct answer, and note how much she squirms as you try. Ask for specific details–ones that you can later independently verify or prove to be invented."
Despite this concise treatment, this informative little report does share more than enough techniques, traps and tricks to get the job done. Watch for some of these the seventy-five signs and apply a few of the associated tips, and you'll be able to confirm or alleviate your suspicions.
Cheating Spouse – 75 Signs to Watch For (10,100 words) is approximately 30 pages.
- File Size: 129 KB
- Print Length: 48 pages
- Publisher: Webhiker LLC (May 20, 2012)
- Sold by: Amazon Digital Services, Inc.
- Language: English
- ASIN: B0085123GA
- Text-to-Speech: Enabled
- X-Ray: Not Enabled
- Lending: Enabled