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Ask Lisa! He’s flirting with me at the office but he has a girlfriend

April 3, 2009

Dating Ad Network Dear Lisa, I have this deep admiration for a male co-worker of mine and he has confirmed that the attraction is mutual. We have known each other at work for almost two years now. We share the same interests and hobbies, and we have such good chemistry, it’s like a match made […]

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Ask Lisa! Should I move in or move on?

April 1, 2009

Dating Ad Network Dear Lisa, I’m 21, and have been going with the same guy for two years now, (he’s 22.) I want to move in together, and he doesn’t. He lives with two friends, who I like and get along with, but I’m sick of always sitting at his house and watching TV with […]

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Ask Lisa! How important is it to say “I Love You”?

March 31, 2009

Dating Ad Network Dear Lisa, I stumbled upon your book at work, and read it from cover to cover. I read with great interest your chapter on the “Love” word. I completely agree that the man should be allowed to say it first. I???ve been in a wonderful relationship for over a year now. Here???s […]

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Ask Lisa! Broken-hearted swim guy

March 27, 2009

Dating Ad Network Dear Lisa, I just got jacked around pretty good by a gal. I’m too nice, as people say, I just don’t want to play games. I haven’t done anything yet that can be construed as being a jerk about it. (Just an email venting a little, but nothing mean.) I have never […]

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Ask Lisa! How can I stop freaking out?

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Dear Lisa, I believe that a large part of my problem is that I am what you referred to as a “nightmare girl.” I don’t know how to be one of those “dream girls.” I can hold it together for anywhere from a few days to a few months, but I get sooooo incredibly insecure […]

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Ask Lisa! Was dumping my boyfriend a mistake?

March 24, 2009

Dear Lisa, I broke up with my boyfriend back in January. I was going through a lot of personal problems and he was working a lot. We lived almost 1,000 miles apart. I felt like he didn’t care anymore and thought I’d dump him before he dumped me. The thing is, I don’t know why […]

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Ask Lisa! Is he losing interest?

March 22, 2009

Dear Lisa, Why is it that when two people start dating for the first four to six months the relationship is fine, and then it falls apart? In the beginning, you’re calling each other all the time, emailing, spending time together, and then things start to go downhill and the man stops calling as regularly, […]

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Ask Lisa! I slept with him and he never called again

March 21, 2009

Dear Lisa, I started seeing this great guy for about a month. He made me feel pretty special and I liked him a lot. After I slept with him, he never called me again. I called him a couple weeks later and he says he’s emotionally unavailable. I feel duped and hurt, but I still […]

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Ask Lisa! Why did my girlfriend dump me?

March 20, 2009

Dear Lisa, I am a man, and I would like to know why my girlfriend dumped me! Women also do the dumping! Why do you NOT have a WHY WOMEN DUMP MEN column on your site? Is it only a figment of the mind that men are also human? –Representing Dear Representing, Yes, men are […]

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Ask Lisa! She Won’t Stop Calling My Boyfriend

January 1, 2009

  Dear Lisa, I’ve been with my boyfriend for three years. I moved back with my parents temporarily because we were fighting a lot. While I was home, he was seeing this girl he works with. I was really upset about everything even though she said she never slept with him. She assured me that […]

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