A lot of women write to me and ask, “How can I get my ex boyfriend back”?
My first question is always, “Why do you want him back?”
After all, unless one of you has been abducted by aliens or struck in the head by lightning, you’ll still be the same ‘ol two of you with the same ‘ol problems. Whatever it was (jealousy, insecurity, cheating, boredom) that broke you up in round one (or round thirty-seven) will likely still be there. Right?
But what if you really, really, really want him back? Or what if the connection you have is so amazing, so special, so meant to be that you can’t imagine your life without him? Or what if you broke up over something stupid, or a misunderstanding, and you just know it can work out if only your guy would give you one more chance?
Sometimes, that’s all we need. A second chance.
A lot of relationship experts will tell you that trying to get back together with an ex is futile. But I will say, in my experience, that there are some things you can do that can increase your chances. And sometimes a couple can over come their past, and find happiness together.
If that’s what you’re looking for, you might want to consider trying this: The Magic of Making Up , which promises to tell you exactly how to win him back. (And better yet, if it doesn’t work, you get your money back.)
To your happily ever after,
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